You choose the family you want to raise your child. Our birth mother counselor, will walk you through all the steps and be with you throughout the process and beyond. These are some questions you may have.
Does your agency help me decide whether or not to adopt?
Our birth mother counselor will meet with you weekly to help you decide which parenting choice is the best for you. She will never pressure you one way or the other, but will support your decision. She will help you made an adoption plan or a parenting plan, whichever one you decide is best for you.
Will you be mad at me if my choice is to self-parent?
No. The decision regarding your future and your baby’s future is totally yours. You have to live with your choice for the rest of your life, and we want you to be comfortable with your decision. You will find us supportive either way.
How do I find the family I want? (Click here to see adoptive families)
When you meet with our birth mother counselor, she will explore with you what you are looking for in a family. Afterwards, she will give you three profiles to read and look at. If one of those families looks interesting to you, you may ask them more questions via email or you may set up an interview with the family. We want you to feel totally comfortable with your decision.
Can I pick a family without meeting them if I choose?
Of course. You may choose a family from the profiles we will give you. You never have to meet with them if that is your desire.
If I want no involvement with the adoptive family or my child, will my identify be protected?
Yes! We will seal your file and only a court order will allow us to share it with anyone.
Can the adoptive family be in the delivery room?
You choose exactly how much involvement of the adoptive family you want. You may have them in the delivery room or not. They may stay with you in the hospital or just visit when you want them to.
Can my baby go home from the hospital with the adoptive parents?
Yes. We will facilitate all the details regarding this. Be assured that there will be someone with you during and after your hospital stay.
Can someone take care of my baby while I decide what to do?
Most definitely. We have families that will care for your baby if you so choose.
Can I ask for pictures and information about my child after adoption?
Of course you can. We encourage pictures and letters be sent to you often during the first years and then throughout the child’s life. All of these details will be covered in the Communication Agreement. (See Steps to Adoption) |
